H just called saying he just woke up and wanted to say merry christmas to me. He said he would be over in a little bit, but I told him I had to go somewhere and wouldn't be here. He seemed disappointed.
That's the thing that I HATE: he always makes plans expecting me to shape my life around his schedule. He mentioned he was coming here without even asking if I'd be around and then has a problem that I won't be???
Plus, if I did stay home waiting for him to come, I am sure he would be over 3 to 4 hours later. He always did that. He is horrible with time and consideration for other people (especially me) waiting. And then he stays for two seconds and leaves. I can't handle that.
So I will continue to GAL. If he wants to be part of it, then he needs to schedule a time or make an effort to see me.