I was talking with one of my clients who was a WAH and he says he thinks H is disrespectful and childish by not waiting for the divorce to be over before going out with other people.
It's nice to see that I am not crazy; that H is irresponsible and reckless to my feelings.
When I look at my stitch, I can see that if he really wanted out and was sick and tired of me, he would have said from the get go that he wanted out and was going to go out with other people.
On the other side, if he does love me (but not in love as he says) he would have respected my feelings in the process.
Now, because H was neither one of these options, I see a lot of anger coming from him. Even the fact that he cheated on me with a Brazilian sounds like anger towards me. Does it make sense? He is just too damn angry with me???