Caverna,

You are doing awesome. This lovingly distancing stuff is super hard and I think you are doing beautifully.


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One of his shoes is back in the shoe closet. I don't know if that means anything.




I had to comment on this. It made me laugh as it resonated with me so completely. Ah yes, we look for any and every little sign don't we?! We would make great private eyes or be good at some sort of adult version of "I spy with my little eye". No word, gesture or moved item escapes our notice !

brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05