You guys are so great. You have said everything I needed to hear.
About the ring. It doesn't really matter what he did to it, but he took it, so whatever the case, he is thinking. You guys are right.
About the emotions (newwoman), H has said the exact same things too. He said he always wanted to come back, didn't want to let me go, didn't have the courage to file, BUT his heart is not in it (the M).
I DO need to find out what I want. Right now I want him back, but while married I didn't know if I loved him and wanted to spend my life with him. Even he says that I only want him because I can't have him. I don't even know anymore.
He didn't walk the doggie after work, so I don't know what happened there. One of his shoes is back in the shoe closet. I don't know if that means anything.
