Keep being distant from him and maybe he'll contine to do things to get you to notice him. Really men are just idiots and they are acting SO childish right now! The fact that was doing even these little things certainly means something. As for his ring, who knows what he has done with it, but if he picked it up then that says volumes for itself! Touching the ring will only remind him that he is married!!!!

I know it gets discouraging (as you know I'm very discouraged), but you're doing such a great job, despite all the setbacks!