I lost you in the threads. have just been catching up. I think you are doing REALLY well. I love the short term goals you set for yourself. You might want to take them that extra DB step and really define them: "what will that look like" what will I or H be doing..."
You are on the right track though I think to take the focus off of him and back onto yourself.
I have a feeling I will move to "Piecing" in the next few months but until then I just have to focus on myself and let him come to me. I have to be that confident enegetic person I was before this R and neg. thoughts got me spiraling down.
I bet you notice it too- the moment you are more your confident self , he is drawn to you like a fly to honey!
My DB coach just reminded me lately that I am operating under the Laws of Attraction -- dating rules not marriage rules. Can be exhausting sometimes but hey better to deal with dating with your H than withsomeone totally new- at least you have some solid experience to work from!
bravagal
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05
