The only way to deal with an insurmountable task like figuring out money, if there will ever be another love in your life, etc., is to take it minute by minute. Looking too far into the future can sometimes make you crazy. Let go of those worries for a minute and focus just on breathing and being where you are at the moment. The key is not getting overwhelmed by the flood of emotions that is nearly washing you over. You said yourself that you were a strong, confident woman before all this. You still are that woman! The only difference now is that you had experienced betrayal and hurt, so it has affected you. It's okay because it's not your fault. You are amazing and strong and you WILL be okay, no matter what happens.
