Quote: Some people think that I should request that he doesn't see anyone for now. I don't know if I should. Does anyone has a take on this?
Well, I would like to tell you that you should ask him to not see other people BUT I have not even said this to my own H yet. It is hard to tell you he shouldn't see other people when I don't even know what my H is doing.
I would definitely tell him you would appreciate it if he feels he needs/wants to date, that you prefer he doesn't have sex with other people. I have said that to my H. He says he has respected that request but I don't know for sure.
Try to think about what you would like to see happen with your M. I am sure you are doing this though.
I won't be around much today or tomorrow but I will try to keep checking on you.