Newwoman, I know what you are saying... that he could be slowly coming back, but our marriage was not even three years old. If something like this is happening so soon.... I don't know if there is hope.
Bj, I need to think about your question. Many people ask me that. It drives me crazy not knowing the answer. It's hard to even live my normal life right now. I didn't go ice skating, for example. Just don't see myself jumping around. I will take one day at a time.
I am reading a book that is really helping. It's called "Letting Go." It's as if the author is describing me.
By the way, I asked H to block me in his IM and he did.
Some people think that I should request that he doesn't see anyone for now. I don't know if I should. Does anyone has a take on this?