Forgiveness is automatic. Trust is earned. Healing takes lots of time. Often scars remain. You will never have no idea how much prayer helps or who has prayed for your situation.
If you get help call Michele a recommendation. Preferably Christian. My X went to family therapy and was told to throw in the towel. False advertising from this clown (therpist).
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin