Caverna's thread IV - H back home

[Becca1975]

I think (and we all know I haven't made great decisions lately) that you need to take a walk, take a bath, something to relax and clear your head and find what YOU want. If you decide you WANT this marriage, you need to go to him and say that you are sorry too, that you really want this and that you forgive him and will not keep bringing it up. Tell him that you still hurt and it will take a while for that to go away but that you do truly love him and want to make this work. If your answer comes back that you don't think you can, then maybe you do need some more time apart to figure it out.