His rejection of you was venomous, but don't let him drive you away. I still suspect contact regardless of venue (phone, telegraph, IM, whatever). He seems to be picking fights. Time for you to learn to be a veritable duck's back and let the water roll off.
If you can handle it, get back in your bed. He can leave if he wants. That way he will clearly be making the choices, not you.
Don't let him goad you into becoming the scapegoat. He has to learn to clean up his own messes, not blame them on you. Picking fights in order to secure a venue for continued contact and/or blame for self-inflicted actions is the bane of the entangle spouse. Most of it will go away within a few contiguous weeks of non-contact.
If he tries to pick a fight, simply smile and walk off or choose whatever disarming behavior is appropriate for the situation.
I am sorry that he got to you and hurt you so badly.
In all honesty, until he stops contact, these events will continue.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
