GEL, I can appreciate that you didn't get the offensive tone of that question. I simply thought the emphasis on why Mystia would need a new number to be uncalled for. I must have been reading it in too negative a tone.
I suppose it's also possible that Lillie isn't aware that Mystia moved to a new State and that she works from home.
No offense meant to you either....but I do believe you read it with a negative tone to it. When I read your response my reaction was "what's got her panties in a wad?!" It looked like an unprovoked attack on Lil....that's why I asked what are you really angry about. Is there something bugging you that might have influenced your response? Just curious.
I wasn't aware Mystia is a SAHM, apparantly Lillie wasn't aware either.
Mystia, I'm really sorry for hijacking your thread! I just want to say that I was up quite late lastnight working on a letter (which won't be sent) to my b-i-l. I've been working on trying to let go of his past offenses toward me so yes, GEL, I suppose it is affecting me.
I was responding to what seemed to me like an "unprovoked attack" on Mystia!
Dori, I hope I explained adequately: my point was that her husband is the one with unwanted calls, so why should Mystia have to put up with the inconvenience of a new phone number when he hasn't got the balls to say, "You know what, *I* need to get my number changed so you-know-who can't call me."
I was not aware that they had moved from another state, that they were still using out of state cell phone numbers, that she was a SAHM, that she worked from home (but I don't think any of these facts diminish the validity of my point)... if all that info was in her thread and I missed it (sometimes I read these way too fast), then I apologize-- my bad.
Lillie, of course you've explained quite clearly what you meant and I understand. With such a short and to the point post, it was fairly easy for my tired mind to read it the wrong way! My bad too
Wow guys! I didn't expect to come back to all this attention over getting a new number
But to clarify a couple of points. H does know I know about any calls back and forth between the two of them. When I see anything abnormal on our cell bill, I question it and I have questioned him about calls in the past which is how I know it's been 2 months since contact. I try to do this in a nonaccusatory tone. Also, we talked before about changing our numbers once we made our move to help eliminate calls locally which would be long distance due to our number. Very important for husband since he is in a service/repair business. Me not so much because I stay at home and can just use our landline. You see, I was very lucky when we moved because my employer allowed me to relocate and provided me with equipment to work from home.
I really don't care if I get a new number one way or another. I talk to my family on the weekends when it's free long distance so that's not even a factor. But I figure if he's going to do it, I might as well too.
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
I am so glad the weekend is here! but along with the weekend came the monthly and I'm a little frustrated with it's timing. Kids are spending the night with grandparents tonight to give H and I time to go see a movie and do any other little things we see fit. I had hoped for some mutual sexual intimacy. Oh well, I will still immensely enjoy my time with H. Hopefully
H said ILY to me earlier. I thought he said it a week or so ago but didn't trust my hearing. H used to tell me this all the time before we started having problems but since then, he doesn't think he needs to say it all the time. Okay, I agree a bit but I just wish I'd hear it more often than I do! So naturally, I'm floating on cloud nine right now
Misty
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
Kids are spending the night with grandparents tonight to give H and I time to go see a movie and do any other little things we see fit. I had hoped for some mutual sexual intimacy. Oh well, I will still immensely enjoy my time with H. Hopefully 
