NOP, I will check out Surviving an Affair. I feel like all I can do at this point is be the best wife I can to him and hopefully time will erase her. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm putting the emphasis on improving the relationship between H and I and how I feel about myself.
I've read Divorce Busting by michelle, Five Love Languages, His Needs, Her Needs and I started reading Mars/Venus but haven't finished it yet.
I don't think H understands the importance of cutting all ties to OW. I've tried explaining but just can't seem to get him to understand. I'd love for him to read some of these books with me because it might help him understand what he's feeling.
Misty
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
