NOP,

He was working all day. He worked from 7 -3:30 at his first job. Came home for his lunch and then went back to work. I had dinner ready for him when he got home, then I took him to his second job at 5 and picked him up at 9 and we headed home.
H has always been very successful whereever he works so I tend to think he really is at work when he says he is, plus I get his paystubs so I know if he's short on hours worked.

Saturday night he left his phone at home while he was at work. The OW who lives 4 hours away called. I totally erased any record of her call off his phone. That's when I figured out the number he has is actually one digit off of her actual number. I feel lousy about this but I just want to erase her from this planet. Maybe she called again and talked to H? I don't know right now, but I'll know in a couple of weeks when I get the bill and can confront him with certanity. I hate this, I just want to have an adult relationship with my husband with total honesty. Why is she in the background as this crutch for him to lean on? My anxiety level is so high right now.


No solo de pan vive el hombre Y no de excusas vivo yo.