Time for some clarification, boy, have I got you good and confused! Sunday night, I initiated, sounds were natural, I ask, he told, I was hurt and stopped any sexual contact. One thing is that my husband is over sensitive to sound. Sounds such as people chewing he can't handle and will go in another room. These are all things that can be attributed to his ADHD. Monday night, he initiated, he satisfied me but then said he was too tired to reach his climax. Is this the truth? Possibly, he had a long day at work. But the negative in me screams that it's me that's the problem. First he criticized me Sunday night, then I don't feel like I was doing any thing for him Monday night. I do have low self esteem so maybe that's the problem, me not him. I need to work on this. it's just a hard time financially and work-related that we'll get past. Have you discussed this with him? Yes, we've talked about it but in our conversations I tend to put a more positive slant on it because he gets so depressed. I'm worried about our finances and how all these extra hours at work are affecting our family. But I also know it's a long-term temporary thing Like 6 months or so and we can get through it if we look at our goal.
Try to focus more on the present and very near future - like your next date for instance! You are so right!
misty
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
Like 6 months or so and we can get through it if we look at our goal. 
