Yikes! I just spoke to my H and he wants to come over tomorrow to pick up some of his things and to discuss where we go from here. I want to talk to him but his tone of voice was not particularly friendly.
He said he wasn't sure what time as he had to pick up keys. I asked if he had gotten an apartment and he said no that he was switching where he was staying with friends and it was none of my business.
My hope was for us to go for a drive to the beach, about two hours from here. In the past it has been really helpful for us. We can get things off our chest without really yelling too much because we're in the car. I asked him if he would go and he wasn't receptive. Hopefully he will feel differently tomorrow.