Hey SS- Sorry that you are struggling right now. I am not sure what to say. My best suggestion is to not make any decisions or react in any way while you are feeling so emotional. Give yourself some time to absorb what is happening. After i moved out the first time, and then moved back home (on mutual agreement with my H), he freaked and then he left, all the while bitching and moaning about unfair i was being, yada yada. After a few days, he calmed down. I think they react to us taking a stand b/c they are not used to it. And they think throwing a tantrum will get what they want. My H said me not moving out again proved that i wasn't willing to work on the M...but a few weeks later, we were going out on dates. So, you just never know. So, try not to do anything while you are feeling so emotional.
