Well I went out and made two extra copies of my key so he can't keep me out. That said I think maybe I want him to be the one to leave so he can see how much fun it is crashing at a friend's house with only a bed and a suitcase.
Hope you're right. I probably should consult a lawyer. It's possible he's just trying to scare me into doing what he wants. When I told him I wouldn't agree to anything to speed up the D process he said "you're going to be just like my grandmother and drag you feet."
Actually I don't want to drag it out. That would just be more emotional anguish for me. I just have no plans to help the process along.
At this point I've decided that I would only be willing to sign a separation agreement if he agrees to go to counseling. I'm not going to put this on the table yet. It's probably best to see a lawyer first and give myself time to soak up everything that's happened over the past few days.
