Hey SS-
Sorry you had a tough time with your H. But, it is only natural to let your emotions get the best of you from time to time...we're human after all. I find that sometimes after i have breakdown like that, i feel better and am able to be more rational the next time i see/talk to my H. I think that sometimes we just need to have that emotional outbreak as a way to set us free...does that make sense?

It seems like your H was sensitive to your feelings though...thats good. I don't know if you were able to speak to your H last night again...if yes, i hope it went well. Let us know what happened.

Where in VA do you live? My brother lives in Arlington. I will actually be down there in March for a weekend.

I hope you have a good night....hugs!