"It's just so frustrating to hear him say he loves me but to then say he still doesn't see us together in the long term. It just makes no f'ing sense."

You are right it makes no F#$%$%#ing sense at all. Unfortunately they are not thinking logically right now. MY W does the same thing to me, and says she loves me, she does not want to hurt me, and I deserve better. Yet she is with the OM!
This is when I realized that her words are not meeting her actions. I also realized that I was doing the same. My actions are not meeting my words, and that needs to change. I have to do what is neccessary to keep my marriage together, and make myself stronger, and take action on what I say.


Tim my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1