Hi YoYo glad you are feeling better and as everyone says we all have our ups and downs. You obviously needed that good cry (or several) so don't worry about it.

As for how you handled H whilst you were feeling down, I congratulate you b/c even though you were not feeling the best you still did the best thing and decided to use the silent treatment until you felt better and that was absolutely the correct way to go.

Look at how H reacted though, once again you go a bit dark and distant and he constantly rings checking up and even asks a sexual question, this is a pattern with him. I don't know if it is b/c he fears he is losing you at the time or if he fears what you may do like contacting OW as that does seem to scare him alot.

You keep strong as you are doing so much better lately....Kim


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