Got a call from H about ten minutes ago. Line was not very clear. And I was like "Huh? Huh? I can't hear you" and after a few times of this, could hear that H was getting irritated. Anyway, did manage to squeeze in to tell him that his sister is having a bachelorette party tmrw night.
Anyway, sent him a short text...immediately after the phone call ended. Me: What was it you wanted? Couldn't hear you. H: Nothing. Just wanted to know what's happening tmrw. Dinner at Mom's place rite?? Will see u tmrw afternoon. Me: Your sister sent you an email on that. Anyway, boys and I will be late. Boys have badminton tmrw. Bye. H: In that case, I'll join the boys for badminton as well. Will call u tmrw.
So, left it at that....Been conformingto my NOT contacting H first. So far, so good. Will have to continue to be DETACH. TO not REACT even if he is NOT staying in the house.
Goals.. * Do NOT ask ANY questions. * Do NOT REACT when he doesn't stay over at the house. * Do NOT feel DOWN on ANYTHING H does or says!!!
