Journalling....Nothing much happened since my last post...
Tuesday H called my mobile again at about 8 pm. When I heard his voice, I immediately handed the phone to the boys "It's your daddy". I had it on hands-free. And I could hear his convo with S8 and then S5 and back to S8 again. The boys were talking and talking, and I could hear him say "Can I talk to your mommy, please" numerous times. Phone was handed back to me. Thought he would say something important but our convo was rather lame... H: Hi! What are you doing? Me: Driving. H: Whereabouts? Me: Driving home. H: I know driving home. Where exactly are you? (In my mind, was WTF would you wanna know? You are 1000s miles away...) Me: Over at the area near Honda. H: How is S8's first day at school? Blah blah blah... Me: Okay. He told you about his day at school. It's not that it's really first day. Just the session has changed from PM to AM. H: Is he still in the same class as T? Me: Yes. H: Oh..same class again this year? Blah blah blah.. Me: Blah blah blah.. H: Okay. Then. Bye. Me: Bye.
Then S8 sent him a text message to him from my phone. Not long later, H texted back and asked what it meant. I asked S8 to reply to his dad but he was doing something else and didn't do it. About 15 minutes later, H called the house phone and asked what I meant by the text. I said "Oh...I didn't text you. Your son did. It's an exhibition blah blah blah". And that was it. Quick 1 minute phone call. No drama there. I refrained from asking him any questions about him.
Anyway, about 9 pm, girlfriend call...had a chat about our boys' first day at school...then she said that I should get him to give me an answer now and not wait till end-Jan. I was rather calm and collected and said that I would wait. There really is no point to get myself agitated and pressured and all for an answer. I will get myself all worked up, and all he would say is "Wait till end-Jan". I might as well, just go on with my life and just let everything be.
