Drama, drama, drama. Just reading your sitch exhausted me. I don't know how you do it, you are amazing!!!
Mmm...maybe "ordinary" is IN
I think you nailed it right there. For some WAS, looks is not necessarily an attraction to them (as it was in my sitch, OW was totally plain). It's the emotional part that have our WAW's attracted to another.
I did notice H being rather "distant" this trip as compared to the last weekend before. Mmmmm...wonder why...
Could it be the guilt or remorse he may have for not being around his sons and being a faithful H to you during these holidays? I know we are not supposed assume what WAS are thinking but sometimes it helps me (or maybe is just denial on my part) to get through the day. I always try to find the positive rather than the negative, with the negative thinking it does not help me.
The OW sounds like a blood sucking leech and doesn't care who she hurts to get what she wants. The sad thing is H is drawn to her, will give her what she wants, and when she dumps his ass for another conquest this may end up hurting not only him, but you and the boys financially. What a f*cking b!tch. Sorry.
Have a happy new year!!!!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years