SIL told me that she just had a chat with her friend (let's call her SF) who is visiting from Down Under. SF knew ow from school days through to uni. And apparently ow has been manipulating men to get what she wants since school days...ie...when she was still in her teens. And continued to do so in her uni days and also her working adult life. ow is soooooo professional in manipulating men to get what she wants that we will be no fight for her. And once the men has exhaust their usefulness, she will flick them off. And, yes, she could manipulate men to actually buy her a BMW!!! (Btw, the story about her BMW being a gift from one of her male conquest actually came from a different source). So...what do I do? Continue to be patient and understanding??? But till when? I can't help him if he willingly wants to be sucked into ow's web..
Anyway, H left to play poker over at friend's place.
This morning, Monday... We had a little spat (very very short one) and then sort of again sweep under carpet. Went out breakfast with the boys. Was rather "normal"... H went on to talk about his poker game the night before. We went back home and boys had a fight in the car. H started screaming and shouting at the boys. I know I shouldn't have but I interjected and said "you are leaving soon so please don't shout at my boys." Anyway, I started to discipline the boys and was still doing it on my porch. H then sort of told me to do it inside the house. Think he felt a little bit awkward...Anyway, he said he was gonna take a cab to the station ...very insistent of taking a cab. (@ssuming that he needed to go to ow???)As he was leaving, I noticed his unfinished pack of cigarettes and reminded him to take it. He answered "I'm stopping!". And I was like "as if. That's what I heard 10 months ago. Take it. You'll spend money to buy a new pack". And he repeated "I'm stopping!". So, we'll see if he really stops.
When he was getting into the cab, was like telling "I'll see you at my sister's wedding and close the gate. Close the gate". And again "close the gate"...I don't know why he was sooooo obsessed in me closing the gate. ANyway...that's our little encounter over the Xmas holidays...
Oh yeah...I'm using one of H's old mobile phones...and guess what?? There are like love messages from ow to H. And also had a pix of ow. I showed the pix to my friend and she said "don't you actually feel good after looking at the pix?" ....I guessed I have to say that she is really nothing to shout about. Showed it to my SIL too.....again...same comments. I guessed she must either be very very good in bed (errr...maybe not...otherwise H will not be looking for me??? Plus she absolutely has NO boobs) or maybe she makes him feel really good emotionally?? Be the damsel in distress?? I have to say that I am a rather independent woman...definitely not the helpless kind. And as my friend says...ALL men love women who are "helpless" and need to be "rescued" by them.
