Yoyo-Hope S5 is feeling better. I know you are carrying a lot of weight on your shoulders right now, so hopefully the new year will take some of the weight off of you. As Kim asked, when January does come around will you be ready to finally cut ties with H? I know you said you wouldn't be the one filing for the D, what do you think will change in your sitch if H doesn't file for D? I think (if I remember right) that you mentioned that you would need to be separated for 2 years before filing for D. What will the sitch be like between you and H during these 2 years?

Hang in there and take care of yourself and your boys. ((((((hugs))))))


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years