Yoyo maybe your H meant you are being very noisy b/c one minute you said you would give him till Jan and then the next you have changed your mind again. You really are Yo-yoing at the moment alot more than usual.
My only advice is to stop thinking things and then acting straight away with a text to H, when you think of something really give it an hour or two b4 texting H and see if the need to text him subsides a bit. I would try to just GAL and as I said be nice when he contacts you. Just get on with things for the moment and see what he does and then if January comes and he has done nothing then tell him the deadline is up and ask what he is doing???
Just my opinion and it might not work for you.
((((((()))))))) Hugs to you it is all very hard I know...KDU
