Yes Tim, now you have an audience wondering? I have to say in general, the male contingent of DBing is a bit reluctant to share naughty tales.
I do have a topless sunbathing story. My teens were spent on the Gold Coast so very laidback and when about 15 or so, a girlfriend and I decided to get brave and sunbathe topless. Lo and behold who should walk past but our youngish and rather cute Science teacher. 2 very red faces at school that Monday That teacher was very suspect too as he started dating a girl in her final year,(one of his students) sending her roses at school, and ended up marrying her. I am sure that would not be allowed these days.
Kim, lucky H getting to go to Big Day Out, although I am sure he was probably kept busy dealing with all those drunk kids. I think I agree with Beth, slowly and surely is the way to go. Let's face it you probably have had enough drama in your situation already.