Quote: He is making an effort and doing mostly the right things but something is missing. I have not mentioned this to him because I don't know if it will pass
Hey, Kim...let me just say that when XH and I reconciled the first time, I would have said there was something "missing" just a bit...it was the trust and my certainty that he loved me. It did return, but it took some time...and when it did, it was sweeter than ever!
VJ
I have to agree. When my W and I started to recouncil I said there was something missing! Don't do what I did. I kept pushing my spouse and telling her that I felt something was missing from her and projecting negativity that something is wrong. I did this and now I am back to just about square one. Give your spouse some time and space to become comfortable again and show those feelings! When you feel comfortable and at the point in you relationship ask him what he feels is missing and see if you both can work it out together.
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
