Happy New Year! Missed you for the last few weeks! Glad that you are back. I want to tell you that I do value your advice and insight into my mood-swings. You are right in lots of cases.
As for your sitch...I want to urge you to be patient and to not be overly-anxious to get that "something missing". What I mean is that you shouldn't throw in the towel too soon when you don't see the "special something". I am sure with time, it will return. I think it is a very good positive that your H is trying hard to work on your M, although it may not be at a pace that you want. Different ppl would progress at different pace. He also realised that he needs to constantly take his ADs and he does acknowledge that it does make a difference. So, give a little bit more time, ok? Be patient, KDU...