Kismet yes I think his AD's have kicked in now as he doesn't seem to fly off the handle as quickly now and last week he did and when I asked him if he had been taking his tabs he said not for 5 days as he had to get script filled. I pointed out to him the difference without them and I think he could then see it too. He is better again now as is back on them.
You don't see huge changes with the meds but just a slightly calmer person who copes a little better.
VJ thankyou for that I think I really needed to hear it and you explained it exactly. I am feeling all that you said but you give me hope. It is always so nice when someone puts into words your exact feelings so thankyou again, I will be stopping over your way shortly. It is taking me so long to catch up with everyone.....