Kismet yep you can come for tea that is fine by me....
SH good to see you around but did you have to be so right in what you pointed out???Sigh you made some really good points so I guess I will just keep soldiering on for the moment day at a time kind of thing and we will see. Thanks though by saying things like you did it can do nothing but make me really sure when the time comes. So I appreciate it and I hadn't really thought about it alot the way you pointed it out so thanks. I think we make so many excuses for them that it does get exhausting sometimes so Yoyo and someone else said just step back for a bit when tired and let it all just roll off so that is what I will do for now....thanks again guys, this board is so useful....Kim