Thanks ya all, you know what PFlower you may have something there with that control thing. My H might think like that too but you know another thing I realised whilst reading your reply.....OW probably has alot to do with all this without even having to be on the scene. She has fed him full of so much bull$#it that it takes him a long time to realise it.
Some of the things she had him believing I can't believe but when they have come out and I have pointed out how wrong she was H sort of realises then he is so daft at times. So anyway I was wondering if it is some of the things she has said and she may have said I controlled him in the past b/c she wouldn't have been getting her way in being able to see him if I asked too many questions when we were together so that would have made or think I pulled all the strings.
Anyhow he came over last night for tea so I picked up some T-Bone Steaks for the B.B.Q which i got him to cook. I did some Garlic Prawns so it was a Beef & Reef and we just had some herbed potatoes done on the B.B.Q and some salads. It was all very nice but filling, I think it took me about 3 hours to not feel so stuffed.
Anyhow the night went fine, nothing special at all just normal.....Oh well, getting very close to accepting an offer from someone else if they come along at the same time i decide i have had it....>KDU
