Sheila and P3 give you great advice. Wait for the meds to kick in. I still say you need to sit down and go over boundaries. He may have some for you as well. But it is not unreasonable. He has to EARN back your trust. And that means he needs to be transparent. If he can't do it with you standing there, then he shouldn't do it.
Good luck! I too can't wait for 2006. I also see it as a new beginning! I'll pop a cork at midnight and toast to all my fellow DBers out there - to a new year full of new beginnings!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr