I was sort of afraid to go so drastic into the green family so went for a inbetween what I had and what I wanted and urgghhhhh two walls later I started over with what I really wanted. Some of my wall decor looks totally washed out with this color and some of my cross collection blends in to much. But ahhhh my teapot collection and frog collection and hmmm birdhouses look awesome.
Your color scheme sounds nice. But what's the deal with all the collections Lol. It must be knick-knack central at your house
Anger or telling him you hurt my feelings and crying?
I do both probably too much. I've been less of a cryer lately for sure. I probably would say I tend to be more angry and express that emotion than sad/crying. Don't they say depression is simply anger covered up? So at least I am getting the anger out which makes me less likey to be depressed overall.
Let me ask you how you would react to this.

H and I are sitting on the couch him messing and carrying on. I am in a good mood picking with him talking junk about getting him a inflatable doll ect. I have to pee so need to get up H tells me the best time to pee is while having a O from what he heard. I jokingly say I am not into peeing on my self for any reason he would have to try that one out with someone else and let me know how it works out. H gets pissy because I am telling him to have sex with someone else. (hello I am joking around here trying to be nice build ec ect). How would you react to him getting pissy?

Me good playful mood lost automatic shut down. H did for once ask what was wronge and I did finally tell him that I guess I am suppose to be one of those anal woman who get all upset over the oh she is sorta goodlooking type comment. That I am sick of not being able to even play around with him without it becoming something stupid.
Said it calmly and evenly. No raised voices no anger no nothing but simply put.

Maybe I am missing something her but I see no room to say you hurt my feelings. Or be emotional in these type convo's and these are how they tend to go around here.
Ok, my first impression of the couch situation (where both of you seemed to be joking around), was that he was really upset that you were ending the conversation. The fun was going to end when you got up to pee and then you both reverted back into serious mode. Actually, you turned serious and he turned pissy. Probably your usual dynamic. So maybe you could have returned to some of the playful banter in order to defuse the tension. I think he wants to see more emotions from you. Correct me if I am offbase.