Well I finally made it back to go through your post. I see you have posted again but I am going to finish this one before I read that one. So I am in proper mind frame.
Wow how time flies tomorrow turned into 5 days I didnt follow thru on my word. Ick. I apologize.
Actually I was talking about me.(oops almost called you silly there). Though I do love your input. You do not owe me a response so I would never imply you did not follow through on your word. I told you in my last reply I would tell you further about H indicating he may leave the following day then took 5 to do so.
Lack of sleep is no longer a joke.
Hope by now you have remedied this sitch. Though it sounds like the finances are doing good by it.
The MP3 players yeah now it is hey mom download this and that song for me every day
You are a infidel, in thinking you can handle any amount of stress, and lack of boundaries, and it not cause lasting damage.
Thanks for spelling it out for me. Now about that secret. Only thing I can come up with is you think I think I may be gay. tee hee
You have an inordinant amount of confidance.
Or I am really good at projecting? Yeah know I was a manager in a call center. Alot of times you have to enforce policies or so forth you really have no believe in and do so with confidence.
Question would a really confident person be sitting where I am sitting? Or would they have ran for the hills knowing that life out there is better then this and they can do better. You your self have stated I have a habit of being attracted to this type of male which runs over to this type of sitch. Pattern forming
I dont know if you know Jungian archetypes,
No but now you got my goat I will have to look it up. Traditional is boring and this does not sound so traditional.
He let out all of his emotion. For him its over done with. On to the next thing.
Been around alot of men that don't go from on extreme to the other like this. And believe me other men that watch him do this do not get over it after one of his tirades. Neither do my boys.
How would you rate the effectiveness of your comments to him saying 'What would you do if OM treated me like you just did?'
At that time though he was trying to avoid responsibility for his behavior It also made him stop and think. But will it stop him from doing it again Very unlikely. Unless I do it repeatedly for the next few years.
You arent going toe to toe though. You wont ever win that one, he will revert to cave man. Bonk!
You under estimate me.
You have control, so he doesnt have too. Let go of some of yours, and it will create a vacumn
Where should I start?
Kinda like my failing to reply to you, proved Im not the only one paying attention to your sitch. Gosh I fell down and others stepped up. That feels kinda nice. I need a BB IRL.
I have had great support since I have been on this board. I have stepped on some toes and maybe it seems I have been avioded. But in truth alot of times I read others post and do not reply until I find something that I can relate to and be supportive of. Others here do the same. My sitch does not belong on this board. I stumbled across this forum and was prompted to stay. Even when it does not appear people are paying attention to me You can look at the number of views of my thread and no other wise. But what can/do you say when you cannot relate to the sitch? Or maybe that is my over zealous self confidence talking and I really am taboo around here. Ever read my first post on here you would find Gel, Honey and Lil have been supportive though not always in agreeance since day one. Cin and IHJ and Mrs Nop have always popped in also to lend there support and give there insight/support as a LD( where is Cin).
Now you my dear ahhh man I do have a unusual banter with on this board. But since the day you appeared I have felt that there is something about you I almost know. I know somebody in RL that is so like you it is uncanny.
Yes crab has calories, its protein 2500 per pound. the butter has 5000 per pound.
Well my heart should be happy I don't like crab aye? Now lobster ahhh that is another story.
