Im so not taking care of my well being, but oh well.
Why did you answer my post at such a late/early hour you should have been in bed sleeping. I appreciate your input but not at a cost to yourself.
He IS hurting your feelings
A long time ago maybe. Now it is more it just pisses me off. And I leave it out there in the air 90% of the time. And respond from my anger 10% of the time. I wish I was one of those people who could cry on command (my D can). I could really play this out.
You are strong. Too strong. You sacrifice your boundaries, and put up with things that "weaker" people would not.
Actually I look at it as those who would not put up with this as being smarter then me. Which puts me in the end of the scale of stupid lol.
Your current reaction to him is setting boundaries, but its a mans frame of setting one, thats not going to net good results, I fear. Have you tried this before? Did it work?
I have and it works as well as anything else. But it is more of a comfortable way for me to respond. He gets frustrated to no end when I dead on confront him with out really confronting him. When I refuse to engage or respond except to point to his behavior. It puts him in a place of either changing it or fighting with himself/air. In a word it unempowers his control of me. Which is his biggest want in life. To control me.
See if you can be more vulnerable, while at the same time, not sacrificing yourself,
I don't know how and still be truthful as simply put as I can put it.
I wont chat outside the boards with you or any other married female though, OK. Thats my boundary
I cannot email you. I will not do anything so personall that could lead to a link that my H may come across and then start to harrass you in any way shape or form. I will not be responsible for that. But thank you for the offer.
I have to protect you poor hapless women from my overwhelming attractivness...
Bemusement runs through me with this one. Would you like a six pack with that bag of chips?
I think you need to let him see this
Oh my H has seen my tears of raging frustration before. He knows I usually cry out of anger or pure frustration and just turns his head or wants to have sex.
thats not the one I was referring too. that one never was a secret, IMO. If thats the only one, Im mistaken. So stop bringing it up
Maybe you need to point to it so I stop bringing it up because pure truth here. I have no idea what the heck you are taking about!
I know how the mouth knocks your whole body out of wack
Yeah it can make a good looking person look ugly.
Oh thats not what you are talking about lol. They would not finish working on my mouth yesterday since my jaw bone is still so infected and it won't numb. I tell you dentist are the devil. I would have endured the discomfort just to have gotten it done. But no now I get to dread the upcomming for another week. Yuck. The devil I say.
Well hope you have a wonderful day. I gotta go do housework
