MC stopped because he felt picked on when the C seemed to agree or validate anything I said.
I found that to be a problem with my first MC. The structure tends to be an alternating 2 against 1. My W decided she didn't like him after the issues started turning "against" her. Our new MC is a bit better in that regard. I don't know how it would work in your sitch but I am a huge proponent of Retrouvaille. It helped us break through a lot of walls and get down to what we were feeling and the format would tend to lend itself to keeping anger under control, I think. I have no doubt that I would be in my seventh month of separation without that weekend. It doesn't sound like it would be easy to convince him to attend something like that even if you wanted to try it though.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
