Chrissy, I'm sorry that your H acted like an azz, but I'm troubled by you and your son talking about his behavior and somewhat mocking him behind his back. I don't know if H is S's father, but if so I would think that undermining his respect for his father in that way would be bad for the boy and bad for the family dynamics. Just my opinion.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
