Friday night needed to pick S13 up from grama's decide to go out to eat and make a family night of it. Since I needed to find Christmas lights and all. H gets home with S14 from wrestling practice. I mention I am hungry we are gonna just go out to eat after we pick son up. H fine with this. Get to were we need to pick up S13. Other two boys get out to say hi to grama. H gets pissy because they take 5 minutes and starts bitching. I say something about it not being a big deal. He says well you said you were hungry. I was not starving okay. S14 gets in the car and says he wants us to drop him back off with grama after we eat so he can spend the night. H says no. He can either stay now or go home with us. Son was hungry so he went. S13 and S10 who have not seen each other all week are horse playing (mind you they are not fighting) H bitches at them until we get to the restraunt. We get there and after we are setted H says something to them about why they are sitting so close together. They were sharing a bowl of Ketchup. I look at H and say this and the fact that they are just happy to see each other. H tells me to shut the [censored] up. We eat S14 not happy about not being able to go to gramas does not really talk much and his bad mood makes him snooty to his brothers. We spend the rest of the night with H running to find lites with him bitching at the two boys for horseplaying or this or that. Until he gets them all arguing with each other. I am so ready to get home that my skin is crawling by this time. My good intent of a family night out yeah.
We get home H and S13 play a video game.OOP H is cussing and calling S13 a cheater blah blah. I listen for a little while then ask what the problem is. H says S13 is blocking his every move he is cheating yahda yahda. I say well is that not how you play the game. I am again told to shut the [censored] up. I told him I was tired of him telling me to shut up. He goes into something I tune him out. A little later I hear him laughing opp he is winning now.
Saturday decide to take S14 Christmas shopping with me H decides he wants to go. Oh joy! I said no me and S14 are going. We left went and picked up my layaways and even though that took way long had a good time. We ran around some from here to there. As we were getting close to home we took bets on what H's behavior would be. Well more of a laugh because we both agreed. Walked through the door were met with the what took you so long. Pointed out the fact I was gone for 6 hours. Why did it take so long to get so little and whats for dinner. (10 pm). I just looked at him and said well what did you cook. Got the well I did not think you would be gone so long or you would bring something home. S14 said well we thought you would cook dinner and have it waitting for us since you were her and mom was not. H got pissed. S14 and I were both smirking this was exactly how we both knew he would react upon our return. It was my punishment for going somewhere. By doing so I left the rest of them without any supper. Watched a few episodes of CSI with H and son in the evening. Then me and the dog retreated to the chair and the computer.
That is pretty much every other weekend in my house hold.
Sunday just recant that video game episode about 10 times and you have our day. I choose to stay in my room most of it. Mother in law came over and we wrapped presents. Told H that since I was going to be tied up wrapping his moms presents he would have to cook dinner. He was pissy about it but he did it.
