Hi Chrissy... Dropping the anger and resentment is huge and is such a gift to give yourself! I am happy it's resulting in a better relationship with your son. As far as your H goes, it is going to be harder to rekindle warm feelings for him. You have made an effort to meet his needs, but yours aren't being met yet. What do you enjoy about the relationship with him? Can you think of any shared interests or fun things to do? What is your time like with him?