Quote: that one time was a definite MISTAKE and was only because I was traumatised and wanted someone to hug me
I understand the "wanted someone to hug me" part too well.
Quote: Men don't generally cuddle without expecting sex
Jo, I am shocked. Just kidding.
Quote: or they've got flu
When I had the flu BB could have put a sheet over me and did me anyway, but I did not want to make her sick so did not go for it. ML always makes me sleep better and that is what a person needs to recover faster. Too bad the flu is easily transmitted.
One woman that is high drive said she and her lover both had asthma and had to use their inhailers during sex when they were really going at it. I can just imagine about being ready to O and grabbing the inhailers to finish Oing. A panic and a rush/high at the same time. No smoking after sex, just using the inhailers.
Quote: I'm just trying to cope with the fallout from the last one.
Well, one big concept of Db'ing is fix as many things about you in the old relationship as you can. If you don't, some of the problems will be in the next R.
Jo. If the R with Andy is broken, what part can you fix, not for Andy, but for you to grow, be less stressed, less depressed, and learn how to not get sucked into his $hip?
Jo, some where there is a thread that asks, would you DB again or what part of DBing worked for you. If I can find it I will post a link. It is a good read and you might get something from it to use on your own. I did a search but did not fine the thread. 2:45 AM so I have to quit.
Just kidding. 
