greekgoddess,
Ah, but here is the beauty of the 180, and how you can take control. Dont use that mug any more, simply because he hates it. He uses this as an excuse to start an arguement. Take it away and he loses control, you take control. Talk to hom and be nice always, no matter what. in time, he will realize what an a$$ he really is. If he wants to change, then he will. If not, well then, he is a worthless sack of dung. People will see this and tell him he is so, if they have not already done so.

AK