Glad to hear your trip was good. I don't know what to tell you because I'm in a similar perdicament. XW is off most likely "shagging" OM1 or a new OM#3. She comes back Tues, then she will be telling me what we are going to do as a family.
XW is doing this so that she don't have the guilt of me not being there and so she don't have to face the kids that I am not there.
I wish I had some advice that would make sense that would help you, unfortunately I don't know.