(((((((hugs)))))))))) So sorry about you family's loss.I think it was ok to call her.I mean this is something tragic for you.She heard you last night I am sure but she probably doesn't know what she wants to do yet.she wasn't expecting the call.I would say something like "since it was so emotional when I called you last night I wasn't sure whether you want to make the trip with me.I am making arrangements now so ..."That is what I would do but I am sure you will get other opinions on it.i see this as something that while you don't need to stop dbing through taht you can kinda put the rules to the side for a moment.
Lisa_c
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
While loving someone deeply gives you courage.
~ by Lao Tzu ~
