So your thoughts are that I should follow C advice and bring it to a head...And not follow DBERing?

No, that's not what I said at all. I said that it's my sense that's what your counselor is doing, I didn't write anything regarding my agreement or lack of regarding your C's idea.

Lately, some people haven't been getting the point of what I write. Please don't become one of them!

Do you have any thoughts as to why W is going to MC then if it's rotten in Denmark? She has gotten me perplexed.

I don't know. Maybe she doesn't know either.

that's not me saying that...

Didn't say I was thinking it was you! I was just replying to that comment. Sheesh, Vince, it's not all about you, you know!