I get the sense though that your C does see it, and is trying to get you to move push to shove, recognizing that this is not going to go anywhere you'd like it to right now.

So your thoughts are that I should follow C advice and bring it to a head...And not follow DBERing?

Do you have any thoughts as to why W is going to MC then if it's rotten in Denmark? She has gotten me perplexed.

while admittedly there is nothing more I would like than to find the one man that I will spend the rest of my days with... but I've been fortunate to have experienced it a few times in my life

that's not me saying that...