Just had my IC appt...she says that she thinks it would be good in a non-controling way to tell her that the pain would b too great to continue the MC if she insist on continueing the A...C says that IF OM is not a "factor" than there shouldn't be much of a decesion...
I know this is going against the DB philo...I don't know what to do...C says that I am no different than OM in not having W make any decesions...she says W needs to make up her mind and quit trying to have her cake and eat it too...now keep in mind she knows W from IC also so maybe she has some insights?
Told the IC about "waiting out the A" she does not agree with that philo...she says that it sounds like a strategy and people need to do whats in the best interest for themselves and not to follow a boiler plate strategy.
Went into IC session thinking I would come out with all the answers and I came out with a whole lot more questions.
