but what is it that your Ws are seeing in this man? What is it that he is giving her, that she wasn't getting from you?
Excellent point...my thoughts are that is something that I am going to address on Thur MC...I need to know even if things don't work out...I need to know for future R.
It was because of my R with him that I was able to grow as a person and find my way in the world without my H..
that is what I'm afraid of...I want her to grow as a person and be happy...I just don't want the "band aid" to become permanant skin because it's never taken off.
Let go of the pain, bitterness...it's not healthy...you're too good to get caught up in that.
I'm better than last night, but still a little bitter...yesterday really caught me off guard...i thought we were on the "road"...a long bumpy road, but a road no less and now I feel like we are back to square one.